My cousin and I have been bestie's for a very long time. I was there when his mom kicked him out. He's special needs to a point but can be very pushy & manipulative at times. I try to look past that but its annoying.

He & I have butted heads, many times over the years, over him not wanting to get a real job or work to help maintain our lifestyle when we all were living out of state. His mom told me to put him out on several occasions but doing that out of state when you know he can't fend for himself was never an potion. So I waited until I could move us back home then he suddenly stops wanting to hang out or be (cuz of his gf) around me because I had depression and anxiety and I was a burden. Burdens, mind you, that I wouldn't have had had he helped out instead of being manipulative & a bum! So I decided to just leave him alone and handle my issues myself. I grew stronger and now I know I don't need someone like him friend hoarding, or talking **** behind my back or letting his ugly pig face gf "come at me" any old kind of way. We had a lot of good times but since they've moved back, they've been hounding me to hang with them but wasn't even keeping in contact the 2 yrs they were gone. I got suspicious when they were pressuring me to go swimming & I did to see what it was all about. They pushed 4 hang outs w/me but b/c of pet dander I couldn't do that. Then the call came. "Hey, we're a bit short on money. Got $200?" I did but I said no. No more invites. No calls. No texts.