on&off.We live&work in the same neighborhood so we see each other everyday unless I go out of my way to avoid it.He said he loves & misses me too but what I can’t understand is why I am always be the first one to call to make up with him even it his faults.I stop seeing him for a week every time he hurt my feelings then I will call him he always makes it hard for me before he gives in.Even when he was just my boyfriend I asked him why he can bear not calling me for weeks if he really love and miss me, his answer is:“I am just a strong guy”.He said whenever he sees me walk by, he look away because he said it melts his heart.Times I let him see me pass by & he would do something to call my attention to look his way.We made up but it is still true that if not for me walking by where he works, it will never happen.Is he really just a strong guy with high pride or he really doesn’t love and miss me that much anymore.He said he doesn’t mean all the mean&cruel things that he says to me
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IT REALLY SOUND LIKE HE PLAYING WITH YOUR HEAD.IT
ALL ABOUT WHAT HE WANT. YOU DONT RELLY MATTER
AS LONG AS YOU CONTINUE TO PLAY THE GAME. HE
WANT TO TALK TO YOU ETC. BUT ONLY WHEN YOU CALL
HIM. AND THE EXCUSE HE CANT CALL YOU BECAUSE HE
STRONG MAN. NO HE A JERK. AND YOU NEED TO BE THE'
STRONG ONE AND LEAVE HIM ALONG . AND LET HIM
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE IF HE WANT TO TALK OR ANY
THING FROM NOW ON. I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD TO
DO.BUT YOU DO THIS. LET HIM MAKE THE MOVE FROM
NOW ON. TRUST ME IF HE WANT THIS HE WILL IF HE
DONT HIS LOST.
Too be blunt...move on and worry about you and not what he is or isn't concerned with. I was married for 20 years and have been divorced for 7. We got back together or awhile but it didn't workout. We still are in contact via e-mail regarding our son but that's it. She has remarried and I wish her the best. It's tough, I know..but it is time to move on with your own life. Just one person's opinion.
If he really loves you I think He would look for you instead of you looking for him. Ask your self is this what I want and if your answer is yes then keep on begging. If if your answer is no then find yourself another man.
I suggest to you to let this person loose, coz the more importance you gave to this person is the more he became proud and got a bighead. just try, goodluck!