“No woman can, nor should she, be everything to a man”?
Do you happen to agree with this statement? Why or why not? What about it being reversed, that no man can, not should he, be everything to a woman?
Just to clarify the context, the article was talking about sex and men using pornography (and women being uncomfortable about it).
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the truth u can never be everything to anyone, even to urselves at times...
I disagree.
People should be allowed to do whatever they want to with their personal relationships. It is not anyone's business to decide what is healthy or unhealthy for someone else
Ah.
Well, I take issue with men who want harems but I feel logic and love has to rule over betrayal.
If a man looks at porn, incorporates what he thinks he may enjoy with the woman he loves, with her consent, or uses it to simply get what he will not get and that is it, then it doesn't bother me.
Men who feel the need to force something on a woman or pay other women or see other women than the one he loves who is his partner, have gone too far, IMO.
Women can do the same with romance novels. If women can enjoy the latest romance novel to "get what she needs" and maybe incorporate something with her love partner, then fine.
If she starts going to bars or putting ads in to "step out" on her significant other, then she has gone too far.
Let me tell you something interesting: In my OWN life, I have been the one more interested in porn, with my husband and with other men I was engaged to....due to my religious beliefs, I no longer deal with it. But even before that, my husband had a take it or leave it approach to porn. He didn't have stashes or things like that. I DID.
And other men I have been with weren't all that interested in porn either (more interested too in live sex with me). I can't explain why this is....
"Everything" is the result of combination of a couple of complementary man and woman. Need or wish to be somewhat everything for another person...... is insane on my opinion.
I agree completely. This is why a man should have a wife for domestic responsibilities and a sex kitten mistress on the side. This way each woman can serve him in her unique way.
I would not want to be someones everything, nor someone be my everything...sounds a bit unhealthy.
I love my hubby, but if he leaves me, I am not going to jump off a cliff, I would hope he would not either.
Usually women who are insecure are against porn.
My husband barely watches, but when I have caught him, I didn't get upset. IT was kinda weird, cause I think that should be a private moment, but uncofortable, no....now if I weight 300 pounds or had an ugly shape I might feel like I am not adequate.
Men need there alone time and women can never understand that. We need at least 1 hour a day away from women to keep our sanity.