Whernever I want to talk to my mom about something she immediately gets pissed off and doesn’t answer me. We have good talks sometimes bug most of the time it’s like I annoy her. She’s always saying she’s tired or I’m not easy to talk too etc. I don’t have any problems talking to anyone else, hate that is with my mother.
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What you need: Communication skills
Communication is a vital tool that can
help others to understand you.
help you to understand why what you want is being refused.
Really, if you want to receive the privileges of a grown-up, it’s only reasonable that you develop mature communication skills. How can you do so?
Learn to control your emotions. Good communication requires self-control. The Bible states: “"All his spirit is what a stupid one lets out, but he that is wise keeps it calm to the last."”—Proverbs 29:11.
The point? Avoid whining, sulking, slamming the door, or stomping around the house. Such behavior will probably lead to more rules—not to more freedom.
Try to see your parents’ point of view. Example: Suppose your parents are reluctant to let you attend a certain gathering. Instead of arguing, you could ask:
“What if a mature, trustworthy friend came along with me?”
Your parents may still not grant your request. But if you understand their concerns, you have a better chance of suggesting an acceptable option.
Obeying your parents’ rules is like paying off a debt to the bank—the more reliable you are, the more trust (or credit) you will receive
Build your parents’ confidence in you. Imagine a man who owes money to a bank. If he makes his payments regularly, he’ll earn the bank’s trust and the bank may even extend more credit to him in the future.
It’s similar at home. You owe your parents your obedience. So if you continually let them down, don’t be surprised if they reduce or even close your “line of credit.”
On the other hand, if you prove trustworthy—even in small things—your parents are likely to trust you more in the future.
maybe you should talk to your mom about all this and tell her how it makes you feel when she does that
It sounds like her not you as the problem. sorry :(
Sometimes talking is not for everyone, try texting her, emailing her or another form to see if it will work. Good luck.