I know that my girl friends ex was engaged to someone else while dating my girl friend and my girl friend did not know about it. My girl friend claims that she was seriously hurt when she found out.

Now here is the weird part. I suspected my girl friend couple of weeks ago and I checked her cell phone. I saw this text addressed to one of her friends (who is in touch with her ex) asking her to ask her ex to confirm they had sex and whether he thought my girl friend was hot and good in bed.

My girl friend claims that that incident was very traumatic to her and she was depressed for couple of years, I just don’t understand why it mattered to verify her hotness with that asshole that used her.

For those of you who want to lecture me about respecting my girl friends privacy please keep it to yourself. I would like to marry this girl and I do anything to get information about her personality and her past to make sure I am marrying the right girl especially with this 50 percent divorce rate.