I have about 4 close friends and none of them ever invite me to anything. I constantly invite them to stuff every weekend but they never can hangout, yet always hang with other people. I understand people get busy, but they can at least set aside some time for me. They don’t text, call, or talk to me at all. They never invite me to anything and I’m tired of it. I told them how I feel, and one girl said she’s going through a lot at home and can’t put any effort into anything right now, which I completely understand BUT she hangs out with other people a lot via her Snapchat story. I’m tired of this. I want them to know I’m mad so I’ve been ignoring them, yet they haven’t noticed. What do I do? I just want good friends
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Sounds like they don't really want to be friends with you, to put it completely bluntly. Honestly, I was in a similar situation before, except on the other end. In my group of friends, there was one girl who we considered pretty toxic. She was a compulsive liar who lied about having cancer, diabetes, etc and eventually we just tried to distance ourselves from her. We didn't have the heart to tell her outright, so we started trying to drop hints, like not picking up calls, going out etc. Ideally, we should've just told her straight out.
I'm not saying you are anything like her, but maybe you're doing something that you don't realise is bothering them? If you are constantly arranging plans, that in itself could be annoying and probably makes you look desperate.
I would stop making plans with them. Do what they're doing and stop putting so much effort into the friendship, maybe they'll realise something is up. If they still don't do anything, try and hang out with other people.
They are snakes they are not your friends. They don't wanna hang out with you they don't value you. I know it sounds harsh but it is what it is. We all have friends like this, even the best of people. How other people treat you is not a reflection of yourself,it's a reflection of what type of person they are. Don't be angry or jealous just find new friends
You dont need friends. Youtube is your friend.
They are no better than you. F-&_ em. Mighta grown apart. U need new ones