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i know your upset but honestly two stolen ipods isnt worth ruining a relationship that you value, and especially since you are having a wedding you should do whatevers best to not ruin it. i would just accept the fact that your cousins and aunt are like that, i know you dont want to ruin the relationship but if you tell them you have everything on your side so you shouldnt be afraid. another point is that by letting them get away with it your allowing them to think that your stupid enough to not know they took your two 400$ worth of ipods and by telling them your proving to them that your not stupid. so i would just say something before the wedding. then when you tell them before the wedding and they actually do show up then it shows they still respect you and value what you think. hope that helped.

you are able to desire to document a police checklist, yet that could reason a rift interior the relatives. yet, you are able to wish it to project the fees that your cousin made. Taking her to courtroom could additionally reason a rift interior the relatives. Who do you propose to take to courtroom? Your cousin or aunt. Your cousin is a minor, so which you should to ascertain and notice if she even may be sued. sit down and communicate along with your aunt approximately your telephone bill and her daughter's contribution to it. clarify that with the financial equipment how that's, you're watching each penny and can't justify swallowing one greater despite it grew to become into over your known bill. in case you are able to swallow it for now (meaning you at the instant are not finding out between the telephone bill and say, groceries or hire or the gentle bill), pay it, and then set up a reimbursement plan on your cousin to pay you back plus interest. Then set up a password lock on your telephone so no one yet you and whoever you provide the password to can use it. replace the password in case you had to offer it to somebody.

Well......this is a tough one..............well for starters you may notlike this awnser but I am only 14 But I really like helping ppl out.

But I would tell him....I know that aint much advice

but it wont be you he falls out with, just because you acused

his duaghters, his wife is clearly unfaithful as if shes keeping her daughters thefts a secret then what else is she keep quite?

If your uncle fgalls out with you he does not care as much as you do

but one this is true YOU WILL NEED EVIDENCE!!!!!!!

i hope this helps sorry if I have upset you

I would have told him when it happened.But now you should just tell lyour cousins you know they stole them and they need to give them back or bad stuff will happen

I'd talk to your cousins and ask them if they took it. If they lie, tell their mother you want the ipods back.

u shud buy them a present

and then dey would kno how much u love dem

and maybe return ur ipod secretly

show more love by givin dem da best christmas presents or something

lol

dont go to your uncle...ask your cousins straight up if they took it...and if they deny it tell them that story...make sure you tell them that you dont want it to tear you guys apart but that they lost your trust and that its real sad tah stoop that low and steal from your own family...

Just tell your uncle and your uncle only. Or if you already tell everyone. Try and tell your uncle, but tell him you won't tell anyone else.

i would tell him what happened any way. im sure he'd understand.

but don't be all mad or yell just calmly tell them what u think happend

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good luck

tell him after the wedding that his daughters are thieving gypsy swines