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NO NO NO!! 3 no's for 3 kids. why is he sperminating all these ppl. Is he divorced? were they with his wife? just remember YOU will be responsible for these children if you decide to marry this man. can you take care of a newborn and his 3 "angels"? what is his custody agreement like? What are the mothers like? These children will be SIBLINGS...they WILL have significant influence in your childs life. can u love these kids as if they were yours? if (god forbid) something happens to the mother(s) are you prepared to care for these kids fulltime? Are you confident he will stay w/ u even tho he didnt stay with the mothers of these other kids? if you have a boy, do u want him following daddy's example? MOST IMPORTANTLY... IS HE SUPPORTING ALL HIS KIDS? CAN HE AFFORD ANOTHER ONE?!?!

whoo. my fingers hurt. dont do something you will regret. if you get a good answer to all of these questions definitely MARRY HIM FIRST. see if he can handle being a husband first.

What about you, do you want kids, are you ready for that ?? How many previous partners did he have the children by - I know someone with 5 kids by different men, it doesn't make for an easy life !

Do not start a family with this man. He sounds irresponsible, since he already has three and wants more already. I would definitely wait. He wouldn't be able to afford me or my childrens needs if he already has to pay child support to three other kids. Wait till you are married, please.

dont have any kids with him untill u guys are married im serious...cuz what if u guys break up..do u wanna b a single mom ..no do dont have no kids with him until a few months into ur marriage