my boyfriend is a really good man, but he is very immature for his age 29!. He wears dirty clothes, broken shoes, pants hanging because forgot his belt, showers once a day its crazy. I have been guiding him. When we started dating 3 months ago, on out first date I offered to pay for food since he paid for the movies. he didn’t hesitated and agreed. Then invited me to a hockey game. he bought the tickets i helped with tolls and parking. I want to contribute. every once in a while i pay for everything. I even went grocery shopping with him and he picked some things and i paid, i didn’t care. I also have to be honest he pays most of the time. Lately we haven’t gone out because i asked him to come over my apartment and i cook dinner. yesterday he took me to a restaurant. The bill was $18. he paid with his card and asked me if i had cash for tips. i said i only had 2 dollars and he asked, don’t you have 5 dollars? i said no! i said why don’t you pay the tip with you card and he said no. but then he opened his wallet and had a bunch of 5, 1, 10, 20 dollars bills. i said so you have change why did you ask me if i had? he said well i am paying for the bill, you have to contribute with something!! I felt so offended. it was only $18 plus tip. when i cook for him i don’t ask him to help me with expenses. i really felt offended by what he said. WHAT DO YOU THINK? I even bought him clothes and stuffs for valentines. i think he is very cheap. what do you think? be honest?