I have been talking to this guy that i met online for 2 months on and off.We haven't met in person yet but we Communicate through face book and MSn.at first i didn't mind but i suggested that we take things to he next level by exchanging numbers.It will be better to keep in touch that way than sending message back an forth and face book.He doesn't seem to up to it since he hasn't responded to that.He wants to come over to my place when we finally meet up in person.
I feel like he is hiding something .Is he after one thing?
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Those little alarm bells going off in your head? They're there for a reason. Something isn't right and you sense it. Listen to them, run far and fast and do NOT meet him in the real world, especially alone and at your house. That isn't safe, to say the least. Even if you decide to ignore those alarm bells, you're giving someone an awful lot of power over you when you let them call all the shots and you really don't know anything about them. Don't do that either. Even if he's not dangerous in the worst sense of the word, you're setting a precedent for all future interactions with that man when you do that sort of thing. So ideally, listen to those alarm bells. If you refuse to do that, then at least take back the power you seem to have already surrendered.
Oh, and yes - I bet he is hiding something. It may be low self esteem, it may be something serious. Either way, dishonesty is hardly a good start to any relationship, even if it's merely a friendship.
It's never safe to meet someone online, and it's double the stranger-danger if he wants to be in a not-so-public place when you meet for the first time. I would advise that you find someone that is real and you can trust them.
Woman get in trouble because they pay no heed to their instincts. Listen to your intuition and keep away. It is very risky to give your home address to a stranger. And to invite someone you do not really know into your home is worse. You know that anyone can communicate and say absolutely anything on the net - this is a total stranger who is testing you- asserting himself - by "wanting" to go to your place.
That's sketchy. Don't let him come over to your house, you met him online so he could be a rapist for all you know. He sounds like he's hiding something if he doesn't want to exchange numbers but wants to go to your house. Don't trust him.
Comes off kind of creepy. you have never met him, but he wants to meet you at your house?