I love my fiancée and her mother to death but I have a few wonders on if she's doing the right things for us... I'm 18 my fiancée is 16... I moved in with her in February we have been together for 1 year and 3 months prior to that and she has 3 brothers and one sister living there with her in a 4 bedroom house... Me and her share a room and her 2 older brothers share a room and her sister sometimes hasher boyfriend over spending the night so that's another person in the house and then her little brother shares a room with their mom until we move out and he can have his own room... My biggest concern is the finances of the house and my fiancée being 14 weeks pregnant...her mom tries her best but she don't make much... She works minimum wage 40 hours a week and gets food stamps for us but it's not enough... We have no hot water, no electricity for a few days now and we go hungry most of the days for the last 2 weeks of the month cuz she's feeding 7 people sometimes 8 on $810 a month... We get hot water from heating water up on the stove then dumping it in the bath tub and testing baths and the house is in pretty bad condition but her mother said she cannot move out until she's 18 and she will have her baby when she's 17 and I'm worried about the baby's well being as well as ours if we keep living there... I ,ean when she's 18 yeah we're moving out cuz she graduates this year and she is getting a job after she graduates... I graduated and have a minimum wage job too and try to help out the best I can but I work 12 hour shifts 4 days a week and it's only $300 a week and I have to save up for a baby... I can't help pay bills and help feed everyone and save money for a baby... But my main concern is she won't let her stay the night at my parents who are very wealthy and have money to feed her and the baby but her mom hates my mom for threatening to call social services on her... I feel ad cuz I think she's a bad mother when I don't think she really is...I mean she tries and can only do so much with what little money she has... It's not like she is out buying drugs, alcohol, or cigarettes and letting her family starve and go without hot water... She actually pays her bils as best as she can and loves her kids very much and is very easy to get along with... I just don't know why her mom won't let my mom help her daughter out... Does that make her a bad mom? My theory is that she loves too much and it bites her in the ***... She is a very nice and loving woman too...