I’ve had a friend since 2nd grade and we are now both freshmen in college. We go to WSU which is in midtown Detroit. I’ve noticed she’s been going off campus from time to time now which is kinda scary for me because although our campus is safe wondering off into parts of Detroit alone isn’t the best thing to do at ALL. I literally have had dreams about her meeting people online and not ending well. She went out for lunch with a guy she claimed she knew for a while and the whole thing was very suspicious. I told her it would be nice if she would tell me when she leaves and share her location with me but she just says “I’m not stupid trust me” so I just let it be. Fast forward to current time I texted her a few times today and she never replied until later. I then ordered food and my delivery guy was having a hard time finding our building so I went out in the rain to get it from the main road. As I turned the corner I saw my friend standing outside and I was completely shocked to see her, when I asked why she was waiting out here she just told me she was going out to dinner with Alejandra’s (our friend from back home) uncle. She then got into a car with black tinted windows and pulled off. Now I feel as if she is lying to me and I just want to make sure she is safe. Please help I’m afraid she is talking to guys online and meeting up with them to have sexual activities or far worse things. She’s lied about smoking and drinking in the past. I don’t want something bad to happen.
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I get you're worried but she's an adult. You can't stop her, you can only give her advice & warn her, but it's her decision. Hopefully she'll learn from the mistakes she's making.
Honestly if I was in your situation, I would begin to distance myself from her. She is living a reckless life and not caring about how it worries you. Eventually something bad will happen. Distance yourself now so you won't be so heavily affected. It's not worth it to start stalking her, and bombarding her with questions, it will make everything worse.
Worse case scenario, she has become a sex worker.