Ok I’m 20 years old, about 5 days ago I was boring so I begin to watch porn and get the curious idea to see gay porn, I get an erections but didn’t go all the way with the masturbation with the gay videos. After that I start to wonder if I am gay. The idea really freaks me out. I like girls a lot, and I want to get marry and have a family, I considered myself a straight person. The problem is that I never have a girlfriend because I am shy and have problems with my body (obesity). I am in college and I talk to girls (some are very beautiful and hot), and when I look to guys is just to compare my body because I start to go to a gym. Since that day I don’t see another gay video but sometimes when I am bored I start to fantasy with the videos. I have a pain in my chest and I think is fear and is really start to get out of control.
Ps. I never see myself in a relationship with a man, and i want in a future to be in form (a good body), have a girlfriend, go to partys, be that "popular" and funny guy that everybody loves.
Girls turns me on and I considered myself a good person. (Gays are good persons too, i don't try to say something offensive here)
Please Help, and thanks for reading and sorry for the bad English.
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Your English is good don't worry. You may very well be bisexual (more or less). Many people can be slightly or more attracted to the same sex, after all we are just sexual creatures and it's normal. Don't worry about it... but you won't know for sure until you go out and 'get some'.
If every guy was considered gay after being turned on by another guy, then our prison population is decidedly light in their loafers.
Sexuality exists on a spectrum. It isn't a strict dichotomy. A person can be predominantly gay or predominantly straight, but relatively few people are just one or the other. We just aren't evolved to be so strict about stuff like that. It's all about environmental cues.
For example, a hydra (little jelly sea creatures) sense food by a chemical given off in the water around them. Once they sense that chemical, they start grasping out with their hydra arms. Well, one can simply introduce that chemical independent of any food source and cause the hydra to behave as if there was food. it didn't evolve to sense the food directly and cannot distinguish between the presence of the chemical and presence of the food. Women get "turned on" physically (only) by things that are decidedly unappealing- sometimes, our bodies react to images of rape or animals or whatever- and I read that in an article this isn't me saying I like rapes or animal reproduction. Our bodies simply don't always differentiate the different triggers. And some bodies are triggered by different things.
You're probably the only one who can determine if you're gay. I know some very "gay" guys who are completely heterosexual, and some very normal appearing girls who are as lesbian as can be.
But of course, I think most people I know fall somewhere in between. Now, your question is whether you're somewhere in between, or just curious. Really, there's no way for us to tell, only you know what you feel, and whatever that it is, it's fine. This isn't something you have to figure out right now, there's no pressure to label yourself. Usually people don't ask about a person's sexuality, but if anyone does, just tell them whatever you're comfortable with, until you figure it out.
Like you said, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi, or curious or straight or anything I left out, and everything in between. So don't "decide" what you are tonight, just learn about yourself over time, and that's the way you'll probably get the best answer.
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No I don't think your gay or bi probably just a bit curious :) hope this helped
You're 99% straight. Maybe a little curious, but don't worry about it. After all, your description seems very heterosexual.
Uummm just cause you watch gay porn doesnt make you gay get over it it was just curiosity