I’m currently on some medication which really has been helping! It’s been proscribed by a doctor. I’m first off 2 months away from turning 21. It’s been 2-2.5 months since my last relationship. But towards the end I wasn’t in a healthy mindset. I’m always thinking worst case scenario. Ex: what’s she doing? She has guy friends what if she falls in love with them? Would she cheat on me? I’m also a Virgin and she’s leaving for NY in 7 months to start her career she said she’s going to be over there for about 2-4 years. Would I rather go out with her and we continue dating when she’s in NY? The other option she’s considering is FWB. She wants to go on a date and decide. My next question would be since it’s my first time ever having sex and I care for herwould I fall in love or be get so connected that I’d want to date her?
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"The other option she’s considering is FWB."
This is a red flag to me. WHY would she consider this if she truly liked you enough to continue the relationship with no pauses and spaces and interruptions? I mean i get the distance will make it tricky, but instead of having you settle for less, why haven't you both came together to have a VERY deep and clear conversation about this?
FWB suggests that her only relationship with you is mainly physical. But even so, FWB also suggests she can see other people as well. There are no boundaries as FWB. So, honestly, I think her moving away for her career is probably a blessing toward YOU in disguise.