So heres my story. I’ve known this girl since freshmen year (I’m now a sophomore) recently however she has confessed to me stating that she’s loved me since the moment we met. She was really shy. I told her that I’d think about it because I don’t really trust a womens love in general since I’m kind of a nerd -_-. I just don't want to get hurt.
So it’s been a week since she confessed. And it was the next day that things got weird. At 2 o clock at night I woke up to the sound of her throwing branches at my window. Turns out she wanted to go to the movies. And it doesn't end there. She texts me these flirt filled texts after every class. It’s like she cares about me more then school.
And that wasn't the part that scared me. What really freaked me out was today after school I went to her house (just to hang out) and while she was out of her room something in her back pack caught my eye. I looked, and lole and behold....a pair of MY boxers were in her backpack.
The weird thing is I still like her (maybe even love her) and I’m thinking about accepting her love. And in a vary odd way I’m kinda faltered with the attention. ._. At least I know she won't dump me for some jock.
But I just want some advice. Should I be weary of certain things? You don't think if she sees me talking to other girls she’ll kill them do you? I just want things to work out between us.
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damn
First of all... How sweet...
But thing of a few things first.
Girls are generally more emotionally ready than guys are at the same age. As a matter of a fact, a girls emotions are thought to be at least two years ahead of a guys. So while you may be focusing on getting set up in life, or in your case, finishing school, she, on the other hand, is more likely thinking several steps ahead. (or sideways if you wish) And, in a certain way, it should be like that. You need to focus on getting set up, where as she has the mentality of being there to help you, although, in her case, this comes across in a weird way... but that's just her personality speaking through. Don't take her for granted, but don't go jumping into anything to quickly, since that's the easiest way to get hurt. Give it some time, and see if she cools off any. As a guy, you may get caught up in the whole fact of her falling for you, especially since you say you like her... believe me, I've had my fair share of experiences. but you need to keep a certain amount of distance, so as to see the big picture a little more clearly. Yes, take her out on a date, and get to clear the air and know her a bit more, but don't go in too deep. I admit, she does seem to be a bit over the top with the whole boxers thing, so play it carefully.
Above all, treat her as you would want to be treated. Even if she turns out to not be the one, you will have gained a lot of respect if you treat her as a woman, and not a toy. Hope that helps... :)
The fact that she has a pair of your boxers in her backpack is bizarre. That isn't normal female behavior ~ that's something perverted guys do with girl's panties.
You're seen too many movies. This girl isn't going to kill anyone. At the very most, she will be jealous and insecure ~ demanding you spend all of your time with her, and checking up on you when you're not with her.
You might have to have a date with her, if only to let some air out of the balloon, as it were, meaning she won't stop creeping around on her own, and may not, for a while, if the date isn't working out and you tell her so.
Man, I would be very careful of this one.
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you have a nutcase...if you know her and she's cute and this stalking thing is out of character for her then just take her out on a date and see if you two hit it off...if you don't you don't but i think it's worth a shot
dude, that is freaking weird. but if you're into that whole stalkery kind of thing, go for it bro