So I have a boyfriend and I already have sex with him but we only use condoms though she is not aware of this. The only way I can is when she drops me off at his house but only when his mother is there because she doesn’t want me having sex. While I’m at his house we have sex, she isn’t aware of this and also I can’t tell her this because if I do my mother will be very angry at his mother. (His mother doesn’t know when we have sex but she supply’s him with condoms) I thought my mother would be proud of me for coming to her and let me but instead she got angry and said I shouldn’t be doing that at this age because I can get hurt but that’s like saying I shouldn’t ever have sex or even experience life for the fear of my feelings getting hurt. I honestly don’t know what to do at this point because I’m tired of going behind her back about things and I’ve already been honest about all things I want but the only answer I get is no. It makes me want to leave this house and never come back but I know that isn’t exactly smart so I’m stuck.
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You need to make it clear to mom that you are having sex, and she is too young to be a grandma
Tell her that you're having sex, tell her that there is no way to stop you from having sex. Tell her the only thing stopping her from becoming a grandmother is condoms. You're fifteen, it's normal for you to have sex. Her not buying you birth control is only going to cause harm.
Yes- leave home. But when you become pregnant dont you dare ask your Mom for help. You are obviously old enough to take care of yourself and all the potential problems of becoming pregnant at 15 so handle them yourself.
Just tell your mom that you’re having an “irregular period” because usually if you have an irregular period they’ll put you on birth control to regulate it. Ha oldest trick in the book. I did that when i was 16 and i’m 25 now and my mom still doesn’t know oops. But you’re also only 15 so you really shouldn’t be having sex anyway 🤷🏼♀️ at least you’re being safe about it and using condoms
You're not legal to have sex yet. 16 is the minimum age for legal sex in most states, 17 or 18 in others. You're not going to get birth control just to have sex from any doctor.
You're too young to be having sex.... emotionally and you don't have the financial means to take care of things if there are consequences to the sex.
Can't believe you're having sex at his mother's house either. She knows what you two are doing and she's essentially contributing to minors.
And i also can't believe you want to leave home because of sex? Really? No it's not exactly smart. Your mother made a decision about you and birth control. You need to accept it.
you should be concerned with studies and making something of yourself instead of doing adult things
Use of Condom itself is a method of birth control.At the age of 15 you are doing something that adults do.Listen to your mother and wait till you become an adult to do what they do.
You need desperately to tell your mother you're having sex. Then maybe she'll get you on birth control. Condoms are not foolproof and you can get pregnant using them (they break, they get holes in them, they are sometimes not put on properly).
You are a spoilt and ungrateful brat. You mother has standards but you don't. You think you are all grown up and ready to deal with adult life and it's problems. But you aren't. You have little respect for your mother who deserves a medal. If you were my daughter I would kick you out asap.