ok we argued today, basically via facebook cos that´s how we contact each other during the day...it was something about about the relationship which i asked cos i was upset about something, and he snapped and said he didnt ahve time, and he was pretty nasty, so i basically said it was uncalled for how he behaved.. and he wrote back with a one line answer saying sorry, but i got to understand how he feels.
so what do i do now? if i sulk then he´ll get pissed off. if he messages me again today or tomorrow do i just not reply to show i´m annoyed? how do you handle guys? cos he´s gotta know he can´t be so nasty... but i dont want to make him angry and the argument continue... i´d rather make up but do it in a way that makes him realise he can´t treat me that way. girls or guys, any suggests? i´m not trying to be petty, i want it to all be smooth but he keeps doing this... for once he has to know he was in the wrong and actually BE sorry not just act it
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Your boyfriend should take your feelings into consideration and tell him that he should show that he atleast cares how you are feeling. When I got into agruments with my recent ex even when I couldn't tell him in person how I felt I would text it to him or tell his friend. Communication in any form (eg facebook lol) is good. So tell him how you REALLY feel and get under his skin. Girl I had the same problems with my boyfriend I guess that is why I just recentlly broke up with him. So if your boyfriend doesn't change you guys should break up or take a break from eachother. That usually when they realize they lost a whole lot. You sound like a really cool chick.
I find the best way to deal with something like this with my boyfriend would be to wait till I've stopped being pi**ed off or sulky and then explain my feelings calmly. And maybe ask for him not to be so nasty.
I think that messages via facebook, msn, email can easily get misinterpreted too. Or certainly blown up out of all proportion. Why don't you suggest a quick 5 minute conversation during the day if you want to contact each other.
Keep the arguments off the internet for the rest of the world to see.
Go over and talk to him.
But if he's actually in the wrong, and not doing anything to correct it, you are probably better off without him. But don't break up via Facebook. Do it face to face.
Talk to him about it IN PERSON! Of course someone is going to sound nasty over facebook. You can't see their facial expressions, hear sarcasm, etc etc. It's not a good place to talk about serious matters.
holding grudges will only hurt you & your relationship. Set it aside for now & the next time you see him. Have a face to face
Me personally would just tell him how i feel he wouldn't be able to read your mind and you guys should disgust it to get it off of the table.!
-God Bless!