Take that, you misandrists and erotophobes!
Update:@Lifequest| Unless you're into BDSM and stuff.
Update 3:@Marlena| You're being judgmental of individuals who choose to lead polyandrous lifestyles.
Update 5:@SDoc| “Cunnilingus” means “eating pussy” or “muff munching”; i.e., stimulation of a vulva with a tongue. This question isn't directed at the ethics of fellatio but at the double standard that fellatio is humiliating—according to some sexually frustrated neurotics—while cunnilingus isn't. Hence, gender studies.
Update 7:@LifeQuest| Yep, I love how the French pronounce «ou la mort». Oral sex doesn't always function as foreplay. Neither does it have to be reciprocal in case when it's done as a commercial service, unless you consider sex work immoral or something.
Update 9:@LifeQuest| Then again, I'm probably just being a smartаss, so never mind.
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It's supposed to be the best experience a man can have.
Whoah! I'll be honest I don't know what cunnilingus means and I don't feel like looking it up, but I believe you may have been misinformed in regards to blowjobs. I've been with the same women for over five years, we have a child together, and we use oral sex from time to time as a way to spice up our love life. I'm sure their are millions of mature adults that would agree with me and their is certainly no shame or humiliation involved in this form of intimacy when it takes place between two people who love and respect each other. Not that their is a hidden agenda behind these actions either, but when you are with someone for a relatively long period of time and you love each other most people not only don't see anything wrong with this form of intimacy, but it also helps make a relationship stronger in many ways and alleviates any possible doubts about your partner loosing interest and possibly seeking alternative means to try and find the kind of sexual satisfaction that they may not be finding at home.
Almost non existent. Ask around. You will be shocked how it is just blow jobs we see in porno films; never cunnilingus! There is no such thing in porno films and even less, in the acts that go on in bed between so many couples..It s all about pleasing the men; not the women..as if men deserve it more. Many men are grossed out but get upset when their own woman is grossed out by oral sex. Stop being so angry. You probably are the exception. Good for you.
I don't think so but guys always talk about it like it is. If you listen to a lot of rap its always about someone else's girl giving them a BJ. Even my guy friends talk about it that way. But its only humiliating when you give a ******** to every guy you see, then you should be embarrassed other that as long as your not a slut about it, Its not humiliating at all.
That`s another way of giving someone a good tongue lashing. It may have to be repeated if it isn`t done right the first time.
actually giving a bj/going down on someone is supposed to be a "pleasant" experience if you do it with the right person (and the gender you're programmed to be attracted to) because of pheromones. i could not stand giving bj's to men then i figured out i'm a lesbian but my body had already figured it out that the scent of men is too repulsive for me.
That isnt humiliation, especially if it is done willfully. Humiliation would be making me do it in clown makeup with a squeaky nose on the street corner.
Foreplays shouldn't be about power plays.
It should be fun and reciprocal.
EDIT : I guess so, I'm not, btw. I like your name, so true.
Head is not about humiliation. Although girls who like being humiliated are WAY better at it.