I´ve been going out with this guy for the past 3 to 4 months. Quite a while yes. We have a lot in common, music, humour, places we like to frequent, etc. At the beggining I was not interested but he kept talking to me until we met up several times at a club and kissed. Afterwards he asked me out a couple of times. I have been to his place also some times (About 6 or 7). Invited him to the movies once. Met his friends and sibling, that time he showed affection in front of them.

So I decided to ask him what was going on,that i wanted to know where was I standing and he said he liked spending time with me but wasn't looking for a girlfriend. After that conversation things got tense and before leaving the car he kissed me. Some days later he asked me to go eat with him which I refused saying i had plans. That weekend I met him at the club but was determined to not try anything. I hung out with him and his friends but he pulled me out to the dance floor and tried some moves on me. I managed to not kiss him at all yet he was very "loving", huging me, holding my hand.

I´ve been trying to stay away somewhat, to heal. Not starting conversations via fb but he keeps starting them. I don´t want to be unpolite and it´s so hard to just ignore him abruptly because he is funny and interesting. So far my plan is try to ignore him more , try to move on and if the chances happen, maybe meet someone that i find interesting (very difficult). Problem is he is still after me.

I will probably be meeting him at the club this weekend, im not sure yet. The idea is to just say hi, exchange a couple of words perhaps and mind my own business.

Im obviosly hoping he might come around but I´m trying extremly hard no to keep my hopes up. Its so difficult, I have never felt like this towards anyone and i´m 22.

PS: I have not slept with him and Im pretty sure he knows i won´t.

If he was looking for an open relationship, he could have just got any other girl without goign through all the trouble I am, that´s what confuses me.