Last year,in december I met this guy at a house party.He and his friend browsed through my ipod (it was a small party) and that was pretty much it.The second time, I met him again some weeks later at a house party from the same friend. I usually don´t approach guys even if I have the slight idea they might be interesed, I´m kind of shy, but my friends told me he had been "orbiting" me. So i decided to talk to him. We chatted , had a really good music connection(I have a very peculiar taste), changed the songs that were playing and chatted some more.Somehow i think i drank a little too much and ended up kissing him,It was okay.Obviously that was it for me,i wasn´t expecting anything more so i didnt try to contact him.

THen, i don´t remember when, he added me on facebook.He might of talked to me a couple of times but i didn´t really pay much attention.In January i travelled and he commented on a photo i uploaded. When i came back he started talking to me more often and suggested i went to a club he was going to go to one night, I decided to go with a couple of friends.After a while he texted me asking me where i was.He came up to us and i ended up alone with him. We had been chatting enough to think this guy might be interesting enough so I didn´t try anything, maybe a little flirting but that was it, however i noticed him leaning.

the second time i met him was at this club again (my interest had grew a lot since). I texted him this time and we met up. There was obviously physical attraction to begin with so we made out. We had met a little late that night so i wanted to spend a little more time with him so he suggested we went to his house so we did. (maybe should have not) We went to his room to listen to some music and made out. I stopped before anything else happened and he took me home.

The third time i met him was again at the club, same thing. We went to his house but he said he wanted to show me the terrace. We listened to music, chatted and kissed.HE took me home again.

I think it was about a week later he asked me to join him to take a beer.He picked me up from home and we went to a cool place he said i´d like. We kissed and went to his house. Just chilled, he showed me a video game (im into videogames btw), kissed some more and took me home. About a week and a half later he asked me out again. We went to his house, drank wine, chatted, played videogames and kissed. He didnt ask me out again though the next week (maybe because i told him i would travel for easter but didnt in the end and never told him). We kept chatting via facebook as always.Classes started and the first week i asked him if he would like to hangout after class. He took a while to answer but came to my house.However my family was here and i don´t have a very good relationship with them so i declined his suggestion of staying at my place so we just stayed in his car talking and some kissing, hand holding and thats it. He then started to get difficult.We would talk but i was starting to feel I was the one after him now (and that´s extremely awkawrd for me).I think we met again at the club a couple of times later, hung out together (this time some friends in common where there).They deffinately noticed.That second time i noticed he would lose grip of my hand when my friend came to us. But as the night progressed he stopped minding.

A week or so after that last time we met at the club,I asked him out to the movies after class. I payed obviously and he drove me home. We stayed for a couple of hours in his car.

I was starting to feel things for him (never had before). I asked him a week or more later if he was free on a weekend (i was missing seeing him already) so we set up a date at his place. When i got there he told me his borther had invited his guy friends and they were hanging out at the terrace, asked me if i wanted to join them,We did.It was good, a little intimidating because i was the only girl. We kissed in front of them.He was quite cuddly in front of them.We then went for some private time. He seemed like he wanted more this time but it didn´t give in.Stayed for a while longer and called a cab.

That happened a friday.I asked him if i could meet him on thursday again.I gave him a little knit present i had mentioned i could make for him. He said he wanted it so i gave it to him. We talked and i kissed him again. (it had been starting to feel as if i was making to move every single time).I asked him where was this going and he said he liked spending time with me but wasnt looking for a gf and when he was about to leave,kissed me.Hearbroken.I,never told him i was up or not for an open relationship.I stopped chatting with him too much but he now he began to start our conversations.we met at the club last week.Hung out with him and his friends there,he got cuddly but i avoided kissing him.Thats it.HAve avoided chatting via fb and he keeps talking to me nicely.Im trying to get dettached but he wont let me.

Sorry for the long post. Ps: haven´t slept with him.