One of my best friends has been acting weird. ill call her lynn for privacy reasons.
theres this kid who always makes fun of me as a joke. sometimes it really hurts ill call him john for privacy.
his parents are divorced.
at school he will make a lot of jokes about me and get other people to make jokes about me and sometimes i want to cry. ive been going through a lot but i dont show it. something good finally happened though, i got a bf who really likes me :) but other than that imgoing through a lot. sometimes i try to tell lynn how i feel and how john is a jerk and how i hope he doesn't go to middle school with me, im not trying to be mean but what he says hurts, and lynn says " you dont know what hes going through" and i think "well apparently hes ok to make jokes about me" but i never actully say it. lynn is always saying how i dont know how hard i have it. but everyday i worry about him making jokes about me.i told My bf how i wear makeup nicer outfits ETC. and he said that i dont need makeup to be beautiful.
why is she defending him? im getting a lower self-esteem. im tired of arguing i want it to be the way it used to be. What should I do? Please help 😥
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You tell her just because punk boy is going through a lot at home, that does NOT give him the right or make it ok to be mean to you or anyone else.Tell Lynn you could use the excuse he is putting you through a lot so it would make it ok for you to hit him in the head with a brick.Same defense she is using for him.Listen to your b/f, guys usually prefer no makeup on a girl
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