I try to be a patient person, which most of the time I find I can be, but when something small gets to me, I just explode (metaphorically speaking). For example, baking is something I really enjoy and I do it all the time, but my sister likes to copy all of my recipes and cook whilst I am. I tried to go along with it before, but she cannot cook to save her life. She leaves so much washing up for me to do and every time I bake something new, she will make it as well- badly. It sounds ridiculous, and I am fully aware that it is a stupid thing to get upset about, but it's not just that… It's other small things. I can't control myself when it happens, and I worry it will happen at a really bad moment. Now I come to my question- Is this normal or is there something genuinely wrong with me?
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Sounds like a little OCD... They get angry when small things are missed or are not done properly. They say OCD is also linked to superior intelligence.
Nothing you can really do about it. You just need to avoid people who are not as anal as you.
people don't like being around angry people but guess what
you would be the first person I would call when I needed help when I wanted something done correctly for when I need someone I can trust to carry out something.
I'm sorry about this but about all I can say is people like you and me should not really spend a whole lot of time trying to be with your average everyday garden variety human.
they could be a little more useful if they chose to be that's the way I look at it so they get what they get.
people with short fuse is like you and I well,
I guess we could spend a lifetime trying to change our basic personality.
then who would be around to do things nicely
that's what I thought nobody
most people are very casual and relaxed and laid back about things that's no good for me
and I'll tell you why because they're also the exact same way when it comes to telling the truth or not and so on and so forth. You know?
There is nothing wrong with you, Maybe you have some anger problems that you need to address, because 3 years ago I would explode over the littlest things to and I seeked treatment and realised it was more than that, Its a good idea to ask your parents, or ask for some help, because its good to know :)
Hmm not sure you sound like me but before I started to cut and my head went funny I would talk to someone but yes sisters are really annoying I have one older and one younger so yeah my younger one always copys me and it sucks.
sisters are annoying.