yeah.. call me SICK SICK SICK SICK i know, i'm aware of that.. and i'm not proud of it, but what i'm gonna do if i can't control it!!!!!
it's just that i can't help feeling this way, everytime i see him, the way he smiles, his breath smells delicious.. my brother is really really hot and he's the best guy i know, he's smart, and polite, and charming.. and everything a girl wants..
i'm 20, he's 23 and we've been in some situations where the sexual tension is so hard.. the way he looks at me, and touches me.. it's obvious that he's curious about this too.. but.. aww i just want to make out with him.. just once, just an experiment..
and experiment would be that bad?? just once..!!!
haha i just want someone that understands what i'm saying.. i know it has to be a very open mind person.. just want to know if someone has been through something like this..
but.. ah, i'll do it anyway.. xD
Update:he's my real brother
Answers & Comments
Verified answer
Nicole is right - this is a crush. It is natural to have these feelings but... Have you had them before - as a girl or adolescent on an adult male? You know that was not a real relationship, and never could be (unless you met him again as an adult - but now he is 45). Same with your brother. An intimate relationship with your brother could cause you a lot of guilt and other negative feelings, and will stop you growing in love with your boyfriend.
If you think they your bf will be 'the man,' work on building the relationship with him. If you don't know yet, or if you are going to break up, you will feel bad, but don't get it on with your brother - it couls make things worse.
If you're so certain that he feels the same way then do something about it. Talk to him about it. It is incest but if this feels right to you you should be able to make your own decisions. You are an adult after all. Just don't expect the rest of your family (and the rest of the world for that matter) to accept it if you two actually work something out..
Never try anything with your brother. You need to devote that attention to someone else, and keep your relationship to family. Once you cross that sensual border there's no going back. This might ruin your bond as a brother and a sister. Which, I don't think is really worth it.
You obviously look up to him a lot. Take what you think is attraction and turn it into admiration. Adore him for who he is, and take his charms as something soothing and not arousing.
I definitely think that you just need to look at other guys. Forget this little crush that you have with your brother and think of how this could ruin your life and reputation. Yeah it doesnt make him seem so hot anymore, unless you dont care about your life, in that case you just need professional help.
Is this your real brother or step brother?
Hi Ari, I can relate to everything your saying and I have been in your situation. I am not going to judge you or call you names and most of these people on here have no clue what it''s like to be attracted to a sibling. Anyway, I have some experience here, so if you wish, click on my profile and send me an email or IM me.
Well I think that this is probably just a phase. You're probably just- excuse my language- horny. You'll body will soon pass over these emotions. It's like experimenting. Don't hurt yourself and your family over this it's not love it's lust. Trust me. Just calm down and think it through and you'll come to find that you agree with me. :) Hope i was help.
go ahead try but you might wanna makeout in kentucky lol im sorry i know it is not funny but i just had to say it
but go ahead i wouldnt tell anyone so when you get your best answer take this off before someone you know reads this
DAWG you nasty, I think you need to ignore these feelings and junk but chances are you'll probably do somethin. And my advice is to never talk about it after it happens. It feel good while its happening but after its over it'll feel terrible, dawg.
that is kinda sick, but you probably can't help it. just don't try to make a move or anything. that's wrong.
i understand where your coming from. do it!!! i had a crush on my brother then made out with him then my feelings for him were gone. its not like he wasnt a good kissser.