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(does that mean you slept with him? (meaning sex)) That is the biggest question, which will give you a direct answer. The easiest answer I can give you is, don't have any kind of relationship at all. But if you do, in the long run its all a learning experience. You dont even really know what you like yet, and it will change as you learn more about yourself.

Also it will depend on how experienced he is relationship wise and sexually. Also how old is he? This matters because most guys are strongly influenced by what their bonehead friends would say over how he really feels/thinks/acts when its just you two.

What do you want?

And if you already had sex with him its too late to ask this question because your leverage is gone. He already got it. Game over. Move on. This is the strongest, most powerful thing you will ever have over a man. If you make him wait, then the more attached he becomes to you and the stronger your bond becomes but dont wait too long or he'll go somewhere and get it easier. And its out there trust me. Some times they come for us, and come on VERY strong. How many friends or friends of friends of enemies do you know who are pregnant?

too late. it's going to be a train wreck in no time. you;ve already made it known that you're easy like sunday morning. no need to play coy now.

rebounds occur because people are insecure with themselves and can't stand to be "alone". so you and your baggage rush towards the first available person, you do everything you can to get the person to like you because you need approval so desperately and then the relationship melts down because you're neediness and insecurity inevitably make it not even worth it to have sex with you. he'll move on to someone else and the cycle will start all over again.

If you already slept with him, just keep it going. Its to late to play it slow .

i say go for it enjoy life to its fullest