Look like a monkey... How do I get over that and just live my life? It’s always bothering me. I feel people are always judging me and going to not take me seriously. It bothers me for real. Because I feel like no guy is ever going to want to be with me and accept me for me, not my body at least. I mean, I can be very pretty. But, that’s when I try hard nice dress, makeup, and etc and it’s not everyday you feel like doing that. I am only 16; I should be worried about school. But, living in this world you have to look good to be accepted. I am not saying I am not accepted but not in some ways I am not. The thing that really bothers me is the fact some people refer to me as a monkey. As if, I was an actually monkey. I mean I am human.Treat me like one... How do I get over this?
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I don't know, but when I was a little girl they called me monkey girl. A I looked like one and climbed trees. I just liked myself enough not to even notice it or find it offensive. Plus, I thought I was cute!
It also can be on how you carry yourself, do you hang your head and not take care of yourself? Stand tall, hold your head high and don't let anyone behavior towards you dictate how you should feel about yourself!
Start feeling good about yourself and what you have to offer as a person. The more you show confidence, the more they'll notice something's different about you!
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Hey just remember this: Freedom is the ability not to care what others interpret you as.
You;re still young, there's still a long road ahead, don;t let this type of thinking ruin what you want in life. If beauty is based on looks itself, we won't be going anywhere. How long can beauty remain beautiful, age will take its toll... personality is what matters most, sound clinche right? Haha. My thinking is weird for you right now...
Hmmm, maybe you should treasure those friends who care about you. Slowly everyone will come and accept you, and your looks. Show them you be better than what they think.
We all sorta look like monkeys, depends how much you squint your eyes.
If I was you I would just relax and ignore them. If someone is openly judging other people like that then they probably have issues with their own self-confidence.