I told this girl that I like her before but she rejected me saying “right now we are friends.” And she didn’t give me any reason saying “I just don’t want to admit.” Even though she rejected me she still wants me to keep talking to her. She actually got kind of mad when I didn’t talk much. So we do still talk. But when we talk, she talks about other guys a lot. Like how they look really cute and how she is going to hang out with them or did. I don’t get to see her for now because she lives far away from me. But we still talk on Skype. I just don’t understand why she even has to talk about them in front of me when she knows I like her… :(
Actually when I mentioned about another girl she kind of gave me the cold shoulder even though she rejected me. Also she sometimes kind of seems to be flirting with me. When I said something that made her happy she was like “I think I fell in love.” And one time when I texed her she said “morning sunshine!”
I really don’t know what is going on here and what she is thinking! It just really hurts me when I hear her talk about other guys because I still really like her…
WHAT DO I DO NOW???
(We have known each other for like half a year and I told her my feelings for her like one month and a half ago.)
Thanks!
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To me she sounds a bit immature to be honest... I know you probably don't want to hear anything bad about her, since you like her and so on but I dont think that she is being nice to you at all. To me it sounds as if she is using you to boost her selfesteem.
She knows you like her but still she talks about boys. Seems like she tries to make you jealous to get a reaction out of you. That way she can feel loved and admired. As if everyone wants her. That's also why she probably doesn't like you talking about other girls. Then she isn't the subject of your admiration anymore. It's not fair to you and I think you should put an end to this game.
You can give her one last chance. You can tell her to either stop talking about boys with you or you can break the contact. If you absolutely want to keep being friends with her and she still talks about guys, then you why shouldn't you talk about girls? You can try making her jealous. Maybe she'll come to her senses and realize what she is doing.
Hope it turns out alright in the end. Good luck!
Well I didn't quite understand the questions, but I hope this help. But I think she wants you to prove that you really, really like her. Unless, if she doesn't like you, but you like her, but she doesn't like you, like you thought she does. I don't really know your situation... I think you should ask her, what she wants you do to.. as a nice person, you are. Or she talks and hangs out with other guys, cause she either trying to make you jealous, or she just don't think that you really like her as she thought you do. I don't think I helped you much, and I'm sorry.. if I haven't, can you please answer my recent question. Thank you, and I'm really, really sorry if I didn't help much.
She likes you as a friend
You sir are in the friendzone. Right now, just be yourself. Who knows, she might start to like you
you only have one option to be honest; play hard to get. Be like a friend to her but flirt a bit with her but then talk and flirt with other girls but dont over do it, just do that n make her jealous, answer mine please