I’ve been with my gf on and off for 2 years and Right now we are on a little break kind of thing. She told me she isn’t planning on doing anything with anyone and to tell her when I’m ready. The thing is she slept with 4 people including me but I lost my virginity to her and never slept with anyone else, I was kind of late compared to my friends and they have more than 1 body and it makes me feel different than everyone else. I’m going somewhere next week with my boy where we’re gonna be staying at an Airbnb and there’s clubs and bars and I really want to take someone back and sleep with them for two things. To at least say I’ve slept with more than 1 person and to get rid of my lust. I really do love my girlfriend and she really loves me and this situation is driving me nuts and I feel like I can’t truly Be the best to her until I have some meaningless sex, and if it does happen I wouldn’t know if I would want to tell her but I know the right thing is to tell her but I don’t want her thinking that’s all I want and **** is to go sleeping around. And I don’t want to hurt her.
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I am not sure why you're all concerned about this... a vagina is a vagina is a vagina. but if you insist on getting some variety, do it, i guess? Not sure why you are here asking a bunch of strangers for permission and advice
What happens at Airbnb, stays at Airbnb, i suppose
Just use a condom please
Sorry, but it seems like all you want to do is to f.u.c.k and sleep around. This isn't a good idea at all. If it's really something that serious, break up with her. Don't ever cheat. You can always try new things in the bedroom with her and she can teach you how to get better if you feel like you need random sex to get better at it. Trust me, a one night stand isn't going to help you become Don Draper overnight. If you're always self conscious about the people your partner has been with before you, then you better get over that because as an adult you're not going to find many people who haven't slept around. On the other hand, there isn't anything wrong with only having slept with one person. You're not missing out on much, and you wouldn't want her finding out or the guilt that would come with cheating. Break up with her, or don't do it. That's all I can say.
Uh.. you don't really love her if you want to cheat. And yes it will hurt her if you tell her.