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I just had this conversation last night with my friend. Lol. We decided that you wouldn't want a perfect man. If he did absolutely everything I wanted it would take away from the relationship. When you fall in love with someone you fall in love with everything about them. All the things you like and all the annoying little imperfections. I am in love with my boyfriend. He is amazing, but he is not perfect and I don't want him to be. Even though he does things that make me mad and that I don't like, I wouldn't want him to change because then he would not be that guy that I fell in love with. I love all the things he does.

But, some of the things I love about him are:

I love

His voice.

The way he says my name.

When he calls me beautiful/gorgeous/sexy.

When he calls me babe/sweetie/baby.

When he says goodnight.

When he texts me good morning.

Every time he calls or texts me.

The way he looks at me.

The way he holds my hand. (He never lets me put my hand on top. Lol.)

The way he says that he never wants to be with any other girl.

When he says he cares about me.

When he gets jealous about something stupid.

He has a big ego. Haha.

He thinks size is really important.

He gets offended easily.

He makes me laugh.

He is afraid of my dad. It's so funny.

He is very protective of me. :)

He talks about marriage and having a family.

He wants to meet my parents.

He thinks I am pretty/sexy/beautiful.

I love it when he calls me missy or woman or little lady. It's cute.

He is sarcastic.

Very funny.

Athletic. He loves to skateboard.

He is obsessed with Volcolm and skateboarding.

He likes the fact that he is two weeks older than me.

He gets angry over little things.

He is honest with me.

He waited for me.

He helped me out while I was dating another guy, even though it hurt him.

He gives me advice.

He accepts me through anything that happens.

He is sweet.

He cares about his family. A lot.

He understands my humor.

He is patient with me.

He teaches me how to be a better person, friend and girlfriend.

He hugs me from behind.

He holds my hand.

He goes on walks with me.

He goes to bed so early!

He takes his job way too seriously. He is a workaholic.

He is always 'right.' Lol. Even when he's wrong...he thinks he's right. :)

I love his hair.

He wears the stupidest shirts.

He has a tattoo of the volcolm symbol, it is so stupid. But I love it now.

I love his muscles.

His smile.

His hands.

The way he touches me.

He is willing to just sit with me.

We can have a conversation for hours.

We live thousands of miles apart, and we still make it work.

He is allergic to cats and dogs. But is willing to take medicine because I love them. :)

He is willing to skydive because I love it.

He wants to pay for things.

He buys me gifts.

He will take vacation to come see me.

I am important to him.

He makes me feel confident, loved and cared for.

He gives me butterflies.

He is such a dork!

He says the stupidest things.

He makes me angry on purpose. :/

He is very persistent.

He is self conscious because he has hairy legs. Hahaha. :D

He is a great friend.

He is an amazing person.

He is moving to Japan and all he is worried about is if he can take his couch. Lol.

He says badass a lot when he is nervous.

He is the only guy that ever just asked to talk to me when we first met.

He kept my pictures after we broke up.

He forgave me for cheating on him.

He called me just because he missed my voice.

He loves my laugh.

He thinks about sex a lot. Lol.

He tries to be cool.

He has a temper.

He gets annoyed easily.

Everytime he says "I love you."

I'm sure that's not everything, but it's a lot. Sorry about the long list. I am very much in love with my boyfriend though. I think about him all the time and I love to talk about him. Haha. :) I don't know if this is exactly what you were looking for, but it is all the things I love about him. I tend to compare every other guy I meet to him, but they just never quite meet the standard. Thanks for giving me a chance to get this all out. =]

You're right, a lot of women don't know what they want or what kind of guy they want to be in a relationship with. I think these are the women trying very hard to be in a relationship, rather then being patient with love. They settle for a fling. Which is nice, I guess, and can blossom into something more. But it doesn't really hold a candle to actual "LOVE" Okay, so you haven't met the right girl. You know it's not the end of the world. Like the old saying goes" There's plenty of fish in the sea" I admire that you are seeking a serious relationship with someone. It's not easy to do when you are in the "dating scene" But if you start getting frustrated over it like you are doing now. You are only going to wreck yourself. "...her friends tell her that I'm the perfect guy, but the girl I'm interested in says the same thing about being mr. Perfect but just doesn't feel like there is anything." I don't understand that either, and I've witnessed this happen to someone I know so many times. Not a man, but a women. She's met nothing but bad news guys, fallen for them, and then ends up being heart broken. If you are "Mr. Perfect" PLEASE, stay that way. Don't stop being nice.

Sorry to interrupt, I'm a man. But you'll be more sorry if all u need are answers from ladies only. You'll be worse of. You know why? No disrespect, but even ladies don't have a clue what they want in a man either. They say they like him very nice. It gets irritating when his nice level is 'very'. They like him rich, and they'll fall for who tickles their emotional fantasy, regardless of cash (Although it helps your course).They say they want a man who always gives them attention. You'll be a wussy if your girl has even the slightest hint that your priority is to always be around her. You won't last long with her. And etc.

Look, your question is like looking for a pebble in an ocean. Dream guy? Well, if this will help, their dreams are different. Their preferences are not universal. Some like it hot, some like it cold. Forget about those books that suggests otherwise. Lastly, do they really mean what they say they want? YES! Do they know what they mean? NO! Ladies are not as demanding as we think. They don't put on stamp on these 'items'? TWO RULES: (1) Never expect a right answer. What will work for Angelina will piss Cheryl off (2) Just be yourself. That's a skill not so many guys have. Don't try to impress a lady, and you've impressed her already.

Cares about you genuinely

Listens to what you say and gives you advice

Respects you/ your feelings

Makes you laugh

Looks at you like there's nothing else in the world

Tells you how much he loves you

Holds you in his arms like he never wants to let you go

Sticks up for you and stands behind your thinking

Supports your every decision

Doesn't pressure you to make you do things you don't want to do

MOST IMPORTANT: Makes YOU happy: Different girls want different things, he could be the perfect girl for someone else, but if your not feeling sparks and tingles around him, he's not for you.

LOVVEE is something special, you won't find it with everyone you met:)

In Him, XOXOX

he is sweet, communicates, shows he cares, rather than just words, pays attention to you, isn't afraid to be honest and show feelings, loyal loyal loyal, can't stress that enough, that and communication, the guy actually wants to see the girl.

i love a guy with personality, he doesn't have to be smiling or laughing 24/7, not possible for anyone, but that he is generally a well rounded guy that is easy to talk to and has a positive outlook on life. Humor, brains, character, cute (romantic in a cute, innocent way) the kind of romantic that makes me think awwww he is so cute for saying or doing that, shy guys are charming.

overall makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world, like that Rhianna song, we girls like to be spoiled every now and then ;D

For me what I look for first in a guy is respect and honesty. Without those two things a relationship will go nowhere. Generally in looks I like dark hair and dark eyes, maybe green or brown. A guy would protect me and be there for me when Im down. He should talk to you with respect and never be mean to you. He should NEVER talk about other girls around you unless its your family or best friend. He should not ask you for sex on the first date... that's just weird. :P

my PERFECT man would have to be TALL well at least 4-5 inches taller (Im 4'11) but if hes 6ft or taller i love that! and he has to have a nice body and nice teeth and ALWAYS smell nice. he also has to love music as much as i do and paint or draw, cook, play an instrument, love fashion and loves going shopping with me, plays sports, loves base ball, very energetic and jokes around, childish but still mature, not too hairy and neatly groomed. very understanding a good kisser, really wild in bed and is not afraid to tell me what he wants or what he likes, and he dosnt get jealous when i hang around my guy friends and gives me space when i need it and not too clingy or stalker-ish... and it would be nice if he had a hot tattoo or peircings and a sexy accent

Im only speaking from my own view..

I love a man who is a man..loves being the man and carries himself like a man..the man who treat me like a woman and enjoys keeping that smile on my face..one who is considerate kind and sensitive.

he has to be appealing..respectful..fun as well as funny

responsible..simply altruistic..meaning a man who put me before himself.

and I can work out the rest because there is no perfect man

someone that obviously has their quirks, not totally perfect or that would be boring. they have to be weird in some way. and very confident about it. he should talk like he's not afraid to say anything, and he should always give random compliments, just something simple like "that looks nice" or occasionally asking for advice/what you think about something. girls love when you care what they think. theres a milllllion things i could say but that'd be too long hahaha

id want mine to be funny & have a bunch of close friends that have some nice parties to invite us too. he should be about 6 ft 1 he should be outgoing so not very shy but also a polite & positive side to him. not complaining alot type of guy, good job that pays very well. on valentines day & an aniversary id looove a romantic type of guy that would give nice flowers & compliment me, but that is still honest. xx