Fiancé/boyfriend issue?
Hi, thank you for your help..
My fiancé (boyfriend) can have the absolutely biggest problem ever, huge argument and go on and on and not text or call or anything for an entire day or two and the. Suddenly act like everything is fine and dandy. Why is this??? Like, if I respond to him saying I'm not ok and that he needs to communicate better with me and blah blah blah, he starts to ignore me again and I reply with 'I'm great you' and just act happy or like I don't care, all of the sudden everything is back to normal and great. Like... Wtf.
My biggest thing is how... When two people walk down the isle.. It's for better or worse... And that's how it should be when your engaged too...
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Don't get married to someone you can't even communicate with. Just because he thinks all is fine after a couple of days doesn't mean you should ignore your complaint and just let things roll.
Relationships are about two people, not just one person. Your opinions are just as valid as he feels his are.
Trying to make a dysfunctional relationship is very tiring. Some times you just have to look at it for what it really is - toxic, and let it go. Find a person that doesn't pull the Jekyll and Hyde persona and will listen to what you have to say instead of ignoring you.
Communication issues. You two need to seek help before marrying. If you don't, expect the unexpected. It won't get better on its own. You have to want it and so does he. Believe me, it's best to fix it before a huge step/commitment like marriage. Set up and appointment with a counselor and invite your fiance along. Wish you well. Xx
Just move to the mainland. Maybe it's living on an isle that is making your boyfriend so unreasonable.