So ex girlfriend basically treated me like **** during our two year relationship. I did everything to make it work made all efforts was the good one the whole time. We worked together and she is 22 I’m 26. Anyways she had been around the block at work I started seeing her and dating. She had daddy issues and commitment issues that we were trying to work through. Anyways one year in she leaves me randomly one day I found out it was for her ex who dumped her one week later. She runs back I was a fool and took her back. What happened the 2nd time altered my life . She started sleeping with a co worker behind my back and when I started to put two and two together she basically blew up on me got mad said hurtful things and dumped me. The very next day she posted a picture on Snapchat with him. This affected me so badly I left my job and went somewhere else. I moved apartments that we used to live in together. This happened two months ago but I feel like I’m living in a fog. I did everything for her helped her start therapy buy a house start school, took her out every weekend I adored this girl. Last night I reached out for the first time since we broke up confessed I loved her and missed her (I was drunk) she literally texted me back this morning and said “I never loved you bye” I’ve never felt lower in my life a girl who I did everything for after everything she has already done said that to me? Why is the real question how brutal and harsh!
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Cheer up brother 😟 Given your account on what has happened, you obviously deserve so much more. I'm sure many other girls would've appreciated your effort (at least I would). Truth hurts, but sometimes we gotta cherish and love ourselves more than other people. At least, love yourself more than someone who obviously do not deserve it (don't let your heart fool you). You deserve more! Go see the World now young man ✨
Well, at least she finally told you the truth: She never loved you. She was just using you.
It hurts like hell now, but now that you know the truth,you'll be able to go out and find a girl who will truly love you. When you do, you'll forget all about this girl, and all the hurt will go away. You'll probably wonder what did you ever see in her.
It’s not worth being sad over this young *****. Obviously it has more to do with her than it does you. Go out and meet some women your age, they’re more mature anyways.
I have been in your shoes and it hurts like hell 13 years later. Some humans are just worse that **** for no logical reason. At the end of the day we worth someone who loves us for who we are. You might not see it yet, but you are lucky she removed herself from your life.
Harsh is an understatement. You can't force someone to love you. It was one sided and you need to move on and find someone that loves you and you love them.
Bro, just learn from it, don't get stuck for this girl, not worth it, cut her out do not contact her again.
because she did not love u and was using u. or she does not love u now and feels like she never did
Let it go pal! Just let it go!
Wats her zodiac sign? Also she's not ready for a relationship. She does this to be away from any commitment. I'm sorry you need to move on from this toxic woman
She's an insecure slut tbh she may have her reasons but there was no reason to treat u cruelly after she cheated again. You have to raise your standards because there's always somebody who will take advantage regardless of who u are. I've been there. I had an ugly bf who tricked my mind into thinking I needed him cause he fed off my insecurity and kindness. Although I could have done so much better I let him take advantage and play the fool while he cheated. I've move on since then and never regret leaving. Best thing u can do is exterminate toxic shitty people from your life. She might want to come back again later to use u but please don't ..just completely ignore her. It will drive her crazy not to have control. move on find a hobby work out learn to play an instrument just don't dwell on what she did cause it's her problem now. U will be happier in the end and raise your standards and don't date daddy issue girls.