I don’t know why but I always blurt out what I am thinking.
But others have called me rude and annoying (though I try to not to be mean/ I guess I come off as obnoxious and immature) anyway, I don’t know what to do.
Whenever I try to be more reserved and held back, I just feel like I am pretending to be someone I am not.
Because I am the type of person who goes up randomly to others and tries to have a conversation with them.
It’s also really annoying because I gave up drinking, but whenever I go out I end up laughing and having fun with the person who is drunk (I am completely sober) while others just watch us and think we are crazy. And the next day they hardly remember me or they are just a different person.
I am sick of being told to grow up, because this is my personality and I don’t know how to change it.
Anyone else ever feel this way? Because I am told that I am crazy, but I think it’s the fake people around me trying to be someone they are not who are crazy.
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sometimes and i'm called immature and annoying too sometimes
Whenever I'm nervous I'd blurt something out on accident.
xx
lol, i dont think your obnoxious and rude.
but maybe sometimes you come off a little too far.
sometimes TRY to think before what your gonna say
cus sometimes it might be hurtful..
well, still its your personality so people have no right to judge you
OMG i am sooooooooo like that its annoyin isnt it!!!
i sometimes just wish that i woz all quiet and withdrawn like some other people r coz noone hates quiet and withdrawn ppl. i get called mean as well.
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I have the opposite problem. I don't often say what I'm thinking and so people think I'm naturally withdrawn and quiet. I tend to overthink things.
you are my twin. I always say what i am thinking plus what others are thinking but have no guts to say it.
The only diff is that i make an impact and am remembered, doesnt matter whether they remember me as good or nasty.
hey you are all grown up....
Carry on being you and bollox to the lot of 'em. You sound like my kinda lass
Hardly ever
No I hold in entirely too much! I hate conflict! Trust me its not too healthy either.
Depends who I'm around
me and my sis generally never have a thought we don't say lol
But I never say anything and regret it.