I was able to get married in a Catholic church with only baptism for my husband and I BUT we were not able to have a mass. I didn't want one anyway. Anyone telling you that you can't is saying that because their church may not allow it but every parish is different. Some are more strict than others.

Do you attend church? If so, talk to your priest. He's the one that will be the authority, and can definitively tell you whether or not he'd perform a marriage for you, and tell you what you need to do in order to get married in the church.

If you don't attend a church, chances are you can't get married in one. Churches don't just allow anyone to throw a wedding in their building - in most cases, you need to be a member, in good standing (meaning you're attending regularly, and also are active in the church), in order to be married in the church.

You're Catholic and that's your avatar pic? Damn...

Moving on, I'm pretty sure you can get an answer from your priest. Friends of mine just got married: she's a Catholic and he's not, but they still married in a Catholic church.

You can still get married but the church will high advise you both to get confirmed anyway.

I don't think so D: sorry cuz someone I knew had to get married by the court because they didn't have their communion. There should be a way though. Good luck and the best to u!