She then told me that it hurts when she pees. I was assuming it was a UTI. I asked her to come back and tell me how she’s doing once the weekend is over. She told me it doesn’t hurt anymore. I took all the students to the bathroom so that they don’t ask during class but she said she didn’t have to go. After we get in the class she peed on herself and a bit of blood came out. I asked why she didn’t go to the bathroom and she told me because it still hurts when she pees. I ask her why she told me it was gone and she said that her mom told her to tell me that. I tell her that she shouldn’t be bleeding and if she hurt her private part or if someone else did. She said her stepdad and big brothers, 24 and 26 did. I asked her if her mom knows and she said that her mom told her not to say anything because then her brothers and stepdad have to leave. I reported it and they removed her from the home. Her foster parents have been dropping her off and picking her up late. She’s been sleeping inclass and has stopped doing her homework. She said her foster siblings are mean to her and her mom has given up her rights without hesitation. Yesterday she said “Mrs. __ why can’t you be my mommy?” I love all my students and try to make sure they’re safe. I feel so stupid that I didn’t realize sooner. I want to know if I can adopt her, if there’s any extra thing I’ll have to do. I have my own place, my husband dead I make good money and I trust him and he doesn’t mind adopting her.
Thanks.
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you need to talk to social services about adopting her and see what they say
You and your husband should talk to your attorney about this, and do so ASAP. It's wonderful that you both want to adopt the little girl, and I wish you all the best. But until you know what her legal status is, you aren't going to be able to do much for her. If she's been declared a ward of the state, then you might be able to go ahead with adoption proceedings. But if she's just in foster care until her family situation is resolved, then it's a different story. Your attorney can find these things out and advise you on how to proceed.
You have to apply. We're about the LAST place for you to seek advice on this. You are an educated woman... if this is sincere then contact CPS and get it going on.
We don’t know if you can adopt her. You need to contact the agency in charge of adoptions where you are.
If she’s only in foster care temporarily, you cannot adopt her. You can apply to be a foster home for her, but you cannot adopt her.
If she’s a ward of the state and adoptable, you can apply to adopt her. You should consult with an adoption attorney first, just to make sure you’re doing everything correctly.
Good Luck