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In your heart you always know what you want to do, looking for advise is looking for someone to confirm what you want. For example: My wife has to get chemo. Everyone asks us if we got a 2nd opinion. Getting a 2nd opinion is basically looking for someone to tell us we don't have to get chemo, right? Why complicate it.

The hot girl at work. You ask a co-worker if you should ask her out. You know you want to. You know you don't stand a chance. You're looking for someone to believe in you.

YOu ask someone- should this person and i do "something". you already know the concequences of something but you feel as though you need reassurance with something or need someone to either sway you form doing it, sometimes it may just be that you want someone to tell you what your doing is wrong so you have someone/thing to contradict and make you feel good that you took the wrong choice . Or if you ask someone for advicing knowing what the consequences are- if they are negative you may have someone to point a fault to.

imagine you're in a dilemma and you know the solution but the solution isn't really want you want.it sounds logical but you don't want that solution so you ask for advice.but the adviser gives you the same solution which for sure you don't wanna hear

It sounds like you know the answer to this, but don't want to listen to it. Listen man, listen.