She doesn't seem to like anything about him. All she does is whine and complain about how he is, but everyone around them (including my family) finds their interaction to be comical.
My brother is a bit of a clown (and so am I) and I know from my past experience the man I was with didn't like my humor. He'd tell me I was being "retarded" or make faces at me. Now I am with a man that laughs along with me and is very receptive to a joke or just joking around.
My brother's fiancé just whines and tells him to stop or makes a stink face at him. For being HIMSELF.
My family all loves her and I liked her very much and was happy they were together. But I don't live at home and haven't for years and so I didn't think much about their interactions before now. I just kind of realized it when she wasn't around by now quiet it was, even with my brother laughing or being silly. He's a very well liked guy. It was quiet without someone whining for him to stop over and over and just picking and picking.
I feel like it's wrong of me to feel this way. And now that there is a wedding being planned I just have this hunch that she doesn't even like me either lol. Maybe because we are alike and my brother can actually talk to me about stuff or show me stuff that she whines for him to shut up about. But I have never been anything but kind to her. I hear little comments said under breath from her. Whatever. Anyway, I don't know why no one else sees it. Feels good to vent a bit. Is it wrong of me?
Answers & Comments
No one else sees it because you are the only one who is overprotective of him and jealous of her. Grow up and let them live their own life.
It's not wrong for you to feel what you feel ... you actually can't help what you feel.
You probably are alerted to things about her that no one else sees ... however, it will take your brother to find her out in the long run.
Its fine if you keep it to yourself, but not if you share it.. Its not your responsibility to determine whether she is right or wrong for him. Its none of your business. Plus making this decision to not approve will only serve as a hurdle in your relationship with her, and potentially the whole family since they all accept her with open arms.
Yes it is wrong of u. I m sure lots of people dislike u but they let u live. So u let your brother and his fiancee live
It's not wrong for you to feel one way or another. As you describe it, she doesn't seem like much of a prize, but obviously he's seeing something very different. He loves her, and it's his choice. You don't have to like each other. Sometimes, the best you can hope for with in-laws is just to be polite.
That's how marriage works.