So I have been in a relationship with my sons father for 4 years. We lived together at his moms house for 3 years of our relationship. He then moved to Texas to go to school for automotive. He lives in school apartments with roommates and he’s 28 his roommate 23 or 21! He also has his best friend who lived out in Texas also so he’s always at his house! My question is if I’m being stupid for waiting for him! He told me once he graduates he wants to move in with his best friend meanwhile I’m struggling living at home in another state with my parents! He can go out and have fun and I’m at risk at losing my job because I don’t always have a babysitter! He says he loves us but why wouldn’t he move out there and set a place up for our son and myself! Instead he’s living for himself and I’m dealing with stress! His mom also pays his rent at the student housing even tho he has a job and I also pay our $200 phone bill. I’m jus worried he will find someone else all while I’m waiting and hoping for a future with him!
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Looks to me like he's doing exactly what he wants. He's planning to room with his friend? He's not planning a future with you, he's planning his own. Is it not time you do the same and stop living with other people? You have children to consider here - your first responsibility sshpuld be to them.
i dont think so, i think hes the one being selfish, nnaybe you should let hinn go
Yes you are being extremely selfish... with your children. You have kids by men who cant be bothered taking care of them, you live with your parents because you couldn't be bothered planning to have children when you were secure and able to care for them, you are reckless, selfish and an appalling parent. You should be ashamed... one more thing.. why the ! at the end of every damn sentence?
girl you better let that MANGOOOO