I am looking for opinions from men and women on this one.. So I have a high sex drive and have been with my partner 6 years on/off. I am an attractive woman and will often try things spontaneously to spruce things up a bit. We are currently in couples therapy and I have brought up nearly every week that I am less than impressed with our sex life. It it just so boring and maybe 4 times a month max so I decided to surprise him and went down on him and during me performing this act he started drinking his beer.. I stopped and questioned what he thought he was doing and why was he and he said you are paranoid I was enjoying it and I was thirsty.. I dont mean to toot my own horn here but I am damn skilled at oral sex so I know its not my performance.. but do you think that is disrespectful? Or that he is just not that into me anymore? Or is it merely because as he says.. he was "thirsty"