33M and 20F. 13 year age gap relationship. GF’s parent disapproves. We both want to open up their mind and convince them our relationship is genuine and real love.

I’m Male 33. She is 20. I work full time. She is college student. Dating for a year now.

Both of us gave serious thoughts before starting our relationship. Because knowing her conservative and strict parents, it was going to be very difficult for her family to take me as her boy friend. As soon as we told about us, they wanted us breakup. But, we dated openly for about a year.

Now, her parents start telling her to break up about once every week. And conversation leads to a family chaos every time. She gets too much stress and I do my best to comfort her.

I feel so uneasy sending her home after we meet because I feel like I’m sending her to a war-zone alone. I also feel that I cause nice family to torn apart because of me.

I do not want her to move out from her parents. I do not want her to choose me over her family.

We want to create a chance to make her parents see us as a couple. And open up their minds a little bit.

I feel that I have to step up and start meeting her parents, somehow. ( I only talked with them once.)

I want to show them how much I love their daughter. Seeing me giving all my hearts for this relationship to work. What can we do to help her parents give us a chance and eventually accept me? (already tried gifts, flowers, Pictures of us).