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I'm confused why you don't understand this. Perhaps you haven't heard: sex is fun. And yes, sex with a slutty girl is also fun. But why would he want to marry a promiscuous woman?

The girl in your story doesn't have to tolerate his double standard if she doesn't want to though. As a matter of fact, I strongly recommend she stop tolerating it immediately!

Well since you said he is from another country I am guessing that is a kind of culture in that country. Like how some cultures have polygamy, they have 2-3+ wives, but they expect for their wives to be faithful to only the one man. He is saying he knows who he wants to marry, but he want to have his fun and go out with his girls and rack up his list and number and then after all that stuff he wants to come back to a pure women and marry her. He wants everything and that simply isn't fair to the girl and he is out of his mind for thinking that what he is saying makes sense. But in some countries like China or India or even Italy where the Man always comes first and is very important this doesn't seem so extreme. Things in a country such has China might have changed a little, but in a country like China boys are so important and every family wants a boy and boys get the money from the will, all the treats, all the toys, and if a girl or someone asks why? the answer is because he is a boy. So to at least some extremist men in countries like that, a girl or someone will ask a guy why are you making me wait for you when you won't do the same for me? the guys answer is, because I am the guy. Its stupid, unfair, and completely putting women at an inferior roll, but thats just how some men see things.

I dont know, but what I do know is i would want to marry a good girl who is a virgin. I may go out to a bar or something and chat with other women, but I do not have it in my mind that I am going to try and hook up with them because I am a Christian. You can still go out and have fun without being with slutty women.

On the other hand, he should not be asking her to do ridiculous things. Especially since he is in another country. I suppose it would come down to how much these two truely know each other, and how much they trust what the other does.

I would not sit around and wait for a guy who was 3 streets away, let alone in another country.

Why would a guy do this if he could? Because he can and because he's not going to sit around.

Be careful... there are plenty of women like me out there.... the kind you can take out, have meet your parents, take to a business function and I can be my husband's slut 5 minutes after... in or out of the house.

Well..I'm a man and to tell you honestly, the saying, men thing with their ...you know. It's pretty much true, it's like your brain is actually moving the information downstairs and the information is getting too scrambled down the way to think clearly. Off course I'm not saying it's like that with every man, but with most it is. Something like that.

This is a sign he doesn't take sex seriously and is sure to cheat on her. Walking down the aisle doesn't change a person. The good girl should also want a good guy which he is not. He'll probably give her herpes.

Men want a girl just like Mom to marry, and sluts to have sex with until he gets married. Of course they wouldn't be sluts if men respected them more, You know maybe his Mom was a slut in younger years and he just doesn't know about her past. So guys should think, you are messing around with someones Mom.

Basically he's an insecure jerk (not wanting her to go out, demanding she remain a virgin for him etc...probably because he has a small penis and she'd realize his wee is really tiny if she saw another mans) and he thinks he deserves a good girl when he doesn't. He deserves a trashy, classless, ***** just like he is.

Your friend might want to re-think a relationship with a man like that. He sounds controlling. Run>>>>>>>>

Maybe somewhere in his head good girls dont and bad girls do.

If he is thinking that way now it will only get worse not better.

In spite of some of the otehr answers not all men do think this way.