Why is it every time I go to a bar and even a fancy nice one, people have no manners whether they are drunk or not!!! That type of environment is terrible and the funny thing is, I feel awkward having to be proper and show good etiquette manners with saying:
”Excuse me” or “please” at a bar and it turns all the women off if I am too nice and proper so what is the right thing to do and make my way past a crowded bar full of drunks and jack-asses!?! Im worried if I don’t say excuse me and I shove my way through like everyone else, I may get a black eye or someone pushing me and yelling at me saying: “LEARN MANNERS BUDDY!” So why can’t people just act proper and normal at a bar? I always get a bad influence from people at bars so I act like everyone else!!!!
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All the bars I've ever been in, people do say "Excuse me". Perhaps your bar is not as nice and fancy as you imagine. If it was, there would not be drunks allowed to remain on the premises
It is just bar ettiquette
It is too noisy normally to say "excuse me." People are more physical and so you push through in a physical way, you respond by moving out of the way and now worry about it.
You are not pushing as such , but sliding through the crowd.
It is half the fun. I have nothing against politeness but you should do things the right way in a bar.
Cause they're drunk and could care less what you think