Why is it every time I go to a bar and even a fancy nice one, people have no manners whether they are drunk or not!!! That type of environment is terrible and the funny thing is, I feel awkward having to be proper and show good etiquette manners with saying:
”Excuse me” or “please” at a bar and it turns all the women off if I am too nice and proper so what is the right thing to do and make my way past a crowded bar full of drunks and jack-asses!?! Im worried if I don’t say excuse me and I shove my way through like everyone else, I may get a black eye or someone pushing me and yelling at me saying: “LEARN MANNERS BUDDY!” So why can’t people just act proper and normal at a bar? I always get a bad influence from people at bars so I act like everyone else!!!!
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My answer may seem mean-spirited and simplistic, but here it is: Stay out of bars. You're entering an environment populated by alcoholics, losers and sexual predators. They obviously have no respect for themselves, you can't expect them to have any respect for anyone else. You said it yourself, "a crowded bar full of drunks and jackasses". And of course, there's the 'slush' factor. Many people who are quite sociable when sober do the Jekyll-and-Hyde thing after their 3rd martini, turning into a foul-mouthed pig.
Obviously, not everyone who goes to bars and nightclubs are like that. You sound like a decent and considerate person. Just because there are so many ill-mannered jerks and jerkettes is no reason to stop being a 'proper' person who still believes in kind manners. You'll eventually attract others who feel as you do. Avoid the obvious *******, enjoy yourself and have a nice time. Good luck.
It's not lik you'd hear them anyway.The noise in a bar overpowers their speech.
Idk maybe to make people think that are nice even though they don't know the other person at all