This girl in my college class asked me to help her study so we met up and studied. A few days later I asked her if she wanted to hang out and study and she agreed to study at her house. We ended up making out for a while and she said I was cute and was wanting that to happen. Before and after that her replies are far between each other like hours. And last night we were texting same deal but she didn’t reply to my last message which was at 8:30pm. She said she had a fun time and enjoyed herself and when we were making out and I tried to advance she said not yet like not now but eventually. So I’m confused why is it taking her so long to reply? I don’t bombard her with texts I only text back when I receive a text but I don’t want to loose a chance to hang out again. So why does she do this? What should I do?
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Not everybody has a "be snappy" approach to communication. Some people respond to messages very promptly while some people have a more laid back "If it CAN wait, then it can wait -- no hurry" attitude. Both are valid. You have to be accepting of those people whose attitude is "What's the big deal if I don't respond for a few days or even never respond? What harm is done?" if you want those people to be tolerant of your own "C'mon, c'mon, what's the hold up, it's been over an hour!" attitude.
you should ask her to hang out once if no reply you could ask her one more time then you stop all communication, brother is this simple when a girl likes you they will open the door for you and they will actually help you. Trust me is that simple she will contact you when she is wanted to see you.
She pulls back. She is a lady that wants her respect. She knows she is wrong to make out with you, as a woman her pride is gone. You should respect her decision to cool down. Most likely she wants to cut off ties with you.
Don't let your emotions ruin you.
Honestly i think she either A. Has a boyfriend or B. She got overwhelmed and she needs some space. Try not messaging her and give her a day or two if she doesnt message you on her own then i would message her again if she takes that long to respond again i would just let her go. Its easier to let go now of her before you fall in love rather than let her go when you do love her. Good luck.
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