The guy Im seeing knows I love him and that I want to be with him more than anything and he constantly hurts me by either pushing me against walls, grabbing my arms as hard as he can leaving bruises, tells me im his bit*h, hits me and he verbally and emotionally abuses me. He breaks up with me all the time and when I beg him not to leave he laughs and tells me he has me right where he wants me and that I'm so cute when I beg him not to leave me and so he said he loves knowing how much control he has since he knows how badly I want him. Whenever I tell him I love him he never says it back, he just says "I know you do". He makes me cry all day every day but for some reason I like it. I am so good to him. I make him breakfast, lunch and dinner, we have sex everyday and I do whatever he tells me to and he doesn't appreciate any of it. Even though he's mean I think he is so sexy and I know he treats me so badly but for some reason it just makes me want him even more. I wish he treated me better but my question is..if he knows he is hurting me WHY does he continue to do it and why doesn't he care or feel bad? :(
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Why does he proceed to do it and why does not he experience undesirable approximately it? on account which you enable him to do it and because he does not could desire to experience undesirable. He knows you will no longer circulate away him and he knows he can administration you. He gets to be a jerk and cope with you like crap and you will constantly be in charge. whilst issues circulate incorrect which you had truthfully no administration over you will constantly be in charge for it. He has a punching bag, a door mat and a stupid little female all wrapped up in one equipment. He likes your neediness because of the fact it makes him experience entitled. in case you have been to threaten to circulate away him or call the police, he does not be so unashamed each and every of the time. He might cry and beg your forgiveness. yet, he won't replace. he will do it always till you fairly do circulate away, for reliable. Then, he will circulate on and abuse his next female chum. What you're able to desire to do is locate somebody new. circulate away him, recover from the loss and then circulate on. yet, on account which you like the way he treats you, you will forget approximately what each and every person right here says and shop dealing with him and his crap. Then sooner or later, whilst your eyes are swollen close, your arm is broken and you cant circulate from the discomfort, you will determine that it is the final time you will finally end up interior the well being facility because of the fact of his abuse. yet by using then it truly is going to be too late and he will do some thing some distance worse than destroy some bones. this could be a trend. This guy desires help. He hurts you and meaning he desires counseling in a bad way, yet you do no longer care, you in basic terms want him greater. it is not your fault that he's abusive. it is not in any respect your fault. Even 5 years from now it won't in any respect be your fault that he beat you back and now you fairly do want to circulate away. yet, you truthfully could have saved your self, any little ones you adult adult males have by using then and all the companies helping you the aggravation in case you had in basic terms left him quicker.
Why do you allow/encourage him to abuse you? It will escalate, and sooner or later he will disable or kill you. You need serious counseling. So does he.
This is Law and Ethics. You need to post this in a different category. However, he does it because you allow him to.
You're a masochist. Enjoy your misery while you can.