I really really want to get to be friends with this girl but she lives 2,400 miles away.
This was all through direct messages on Twitter:
On January 19th I said my name, my age and where i'm from and I said that I like her tweets. Then I asked her what her fav band was and she told me and asked mine so I told her. Then I asked her what her fav song by them was and she told me and I said that they were all awesome songs and I asked her what her fav movie is. She told me and asked me where I live so I told her and asked her where she lives then she told me and asked how old I am so I told her. The next day I asked her how she is today and she was good and then she asked me. 4 days later I asked her what some of her hobbies are but said she doesn't have to say if she doesn't want to. She told me and then asked about mine so I told her and then she said we have a lot in common and I should tell her more about my life so I told her a few main things then she asked if I have texting and I said I did but I only had 1000 messages a month but I only use like 200 at most. Then she said she's going to sleep but she'll message me in the morning and said gooodnight (she did put 3 ooo). In the morning I asked her if I could have her number so I could text her or if she doesn't want to give that out and she asked if she added me on facebook, I said she didn't and I sent her a friend request and about 3 weeks later she accepted it. A week later I asked her if she has any pets and said "sorry i'm asking so many questions, it's probably getting annoying by now haha". She told me 8 days later and asked if I do so I told her and she said "aww how cute :)". Then I thanked her for accepting my friend request on facebook and she said "ur welcome :)"
This was on Facebook through a message:
7 days later (February 25th) I asked her what her life is like and she told me a couple of things and then asked me what mine's like so I told her a few things aswell and that was the last time I heard from her. On March 19th I said "Hey! I haven't heard from you in a while. I hope everything is okay. :)" and I didn't get a reply from her.
I said this on Twitter though a dm:
Beginning or March I said Happy Birthday to her but never got a reply.
Facebook:
On April 27th I just said hello to her when she was online but I accidentally sent it 3 times so then I said sorry I sent that 3 times and then that sent 3 times aswell but I never got a reply from her there either.
Twitter:
On May 7th I said "Hey! I haven't heard from you in a while. Is everything alright?" and never got a reply so I deleted it today. She has tweeted and been on facebook quite a bit since then too.
This is everything that has happened from January 19th- Now.
QUESTIONS please answer:
(1) I don't know what's going on here, why did she suddenly stop talking to me?
(2) What can I do or say to get her to start talking to me again?
(3) Why did she ask if I had texting and then when I asked if I could have her number she changed the subject to facebook? I don't get it. (Not that it matters but since then I got unlimited texting).
(4) Somebody said to send her a message saying "Hey! I have unlimited text now, here's my number if you ever want to text me". Would taht be a good thing to say or not?
(5) Should I send her a message saying "I'm sorry I asked you so many questions before. I just wanted to get to know you a little because you seemed really cool"? I haven't heard from her since February 25th. It's like she's ignoring me. I was really happy when I was talking to her before but now i'm depressed again.
Other details: I'm 16 and she's 19. She also has a 1 year old son but the 'Dad' is out of the picture and she doesn't have a boyfriend at the time so she isn't busy with that. I DO NOT want to date her or anything, she is just really cool and we have so many things in common and i'd like to talk to her once in a while. She does still follow me on twitter and we are still friends on facebook. I'm not going to forget about her either.
Please be serious and no mean answers. Any answers that have nothing to do with this will be reported. Thank you so much!
Answers & Comments
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Uhm, yeah, you definitely did creep her the hell out lol. Imagine if someone did the same thing to you - you just met them, and they're asking you all of these questions.
1. She stopped talking to you because you're freaking her out.
2. Give her space. Atleast. Or honestly, I don't think you guys are going to talk again... (sorry)
3. She was probably going to ask for your number, but then changed her mind. So she limited it just to facebook.
4. NO. DO NOT DO THAT. Lol that's going to extreme way.
5. Like I said, just give her space.
Yeah the age difference may be a big factor (I'm 18, and would be annoyed if a 15 year old kept asking me questions).
I can't believe I just read all that...my honest opinion is that you should leave her alone. She obviously doesn't wanna talk to you anymore. And anyways your kinda a complete stranger and maybe someone told her to stop talking to you. Just leave her alone for a while and maybe she'll talk to you again. Patience
She in basic terms isn't into you , sorry :( i have been in that situation, like i in basic terms in reality stopped to a guy because when we spent time and stuff i in basic terms relized i wasnt into him. actually, u possibly did genuinely no longer something incorrect. there became possibly no connection, atleast in her eyes. i'd be honest she became kinda impolite about it in my opinion because i might want to have atleast said somthing if u were attempting to get in contact with me. My adivce, overlook her and flow on. best of success!
i think you are a bit too clingy and freaked her out or something.