Im a comical sarcastic person its who i amb but my pairents wont let me bé me they expect me to bé polite and nice but its just not me why and wat do i do
MANY teens feel the same way! To a certain extent, I still feel that way decades later around what immediate family I have left--as if showing what I consider my true self will get me accused of putting on an act.
However, you are young and may not want to grow into a comical sarcastic old man. It won't hurt you to put on a polite boy act around older people. You have many years to settle into the true you.
Usually comical and sarcastic people - the ones who are like that most of the time - are in fear. Not at a conscious level of course, but subconsciously, such behaviour usually masks a fear or insecurity at some level. Now, that's not saying: don't have a sense of humour. It's when it's putting other people down and being harmful, that it's not good. Your parents are right: you live with them, you live by their rules, like it or not.
I feel exactly the sameee, Im how i am, i say bad words, im foul mouthed lol, but when my mother bring their uncles to our house i feel that i cant be myself cause they are pretty educated and i dont know how do be that haha and thats a problem cause im transparent, and people notice when I'm pretending to be who im not, sheeeiiiit lol
Be exactly what you are, whether you are with your parents, your friends or your peers. The truth never lies and if they do not understand who you are, let them know that you are not who they would like you to be but who you are.
Just be you! **** your parents! We are the generation of the degenerates! We were born to break rules! Think outside the box and just be us! So don't listen to your parents! YOLO
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MANY teens feel the same way! To a certain extent, I still feel that way decades later around what immediate family I have left--as if showing what I consider my true self will get me accused of putting on an act.
However, you are young and may not want to grow into a comical sarcastic old man. It won't hurt you to put on a polite boy act around older people. You have many years to settle into the true you.
Usually comical and sarcastic people - the ones who are like that most of the time - are in fear. Not at a conscious level of course, but subconsciously, such behaviour usually masks a fear or insecurity at some level. Now, that's not saying: don't have a sense of humour. It's when it's putting other people down and being harmful, that it's not good. Your parents are right: you live with them, you live by their rules, like it or not.
I feel exactly the sameee, Im how i am, i say bad words, im foul mouthed lol, but when my mother bring their uncles to our house i feel that i cant be myself cause they are pretty educated and i dont know how do be that haha and thats a problem cause im transparent, and people notice when I'm pretending to be who im not, sheeeiiiit lol
Be exactly what you are, whether you are with your parents, your friends or your peers. The truth never lies and if they do not understand who you are, let them know that you are not who they would like you to be but who you are.
Just be you! **** your parents! We are the generation of the degenerates! We were born to break rules! Think outside the box and just be us! So don't listen to your parents! YOLO