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Recent Democratic presidents--Carter, Clinton, Obama--were not party leaders.  In fact in each of these elections, they seemed to come out of nowhere.  Most Democrats had never heard of them before they ran for president. 

Biden is a whole different animal, someone who's had high visibility in the party for decades.  The only recent Republican president I can think of like this was GW Bush--but of course his dad had just been president.  And, of course, Trump, but he was very well-known.

This time we had plenty of Democratic candidates who were charismatic but unknown.  Pete Buttigieg,  Andrew Yang, Kamala Harris, Beto O'Rourke, John Hickenlooper, etc.  But Dems decided, instead, to pick an old war horse.

I think Jaime Harrison from North Carolina, who ran against Lindsay Graham, is going to be someone to watch over the next several years. He’s incredibly smart, likable and has a long record of across the aisle work. He got a lot of attention this year and proved himself to be a contender. 

i haven't seen any with those three qualities.

President Barack Obama 

None............

Democrats are like crabs in a barrel. They just pull each other down.

Democrats share leadership. Very different to trump’s authoritarian style.