What´s the use of posting a question, once nobody can show me good solution to my problem?
I´m around 30 and didn´t get to have real connection with a partner yet. Can´t find a way to change my loneliness, maybe it´s an inner, natural trouble or result of education since childhood. I feel as though I were kind socially asexual, get it?
Update:Thanks, many thanks for kind answers. It´s a matter of NO MOTIVATION for anything at all, you know?
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Well, I don't know if I can tell you it's a problem with yourself or not. The whole idea of saying "im ____ years old and I haven't found love" is pretty unrealistic. You can't just expect to have found what you're looking for at any age, it just happens. Counseling could be a solution. They might even ask you things like your sexual preference, etc. Don't make your life a thing of finding someone to love. It's the weirdest thing but you always find it when you aren't looking. Live your life for yourself and have fun with it. Making it a chore to find someone to love will become just that...a "chore". It could happen one day, but don't put yourself down just because it hasn't yet.
Darlin' its hard to really connect with people now a days in society it seems like everything has turned in to all sex and skipped the relationship part. you need to focus on doing things that make you happy and sooner or later someone will come along with the same list of things that make them happy. it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you i promise and at somewere around 30 i know it doesn't seem like it but you still have time, less time than me but you still have time... :)