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What do I tell this person?

I'm a guy in my 20s. I was at a King Soopers . Then someone was calling my name and it was a woman I went to high school with. She's now a cashier there. We started talking and stuff because in high school we had sex together a bunch of times.

Back then they were a short woman with long brown hair and big breasts and a big ***. We would just hang out and make love when we weren't in school.

But that was 13 years ago. Now they are married with a son and they are a bit more heavier then before. Do then as we talked she asked if I could grab her hair for old time sake. Because in the bedroom I'd do that to her. My penis got huge as I did that and then she gave me her number and said we could meet at a hotel and re live old times. What do I do?

I am a decent man and I am probably going to say no because I should not do that because they have a kid and I want the kids parents to stay together. But was it wrong for me to get sexually arroused when they asked me to pull them by their hair? And what do I tell them I am going to say no, but whats my reason why?