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This isn't uncommon, but it's important to NOT give into temptation in this case. The reason you have a hard time having sex with someone new is because you still feel like your ex is "the only one". It's especially hard since he was the only guy you've ever had sex with. If you give into temptation and go have sex with your ex, you'll NEVER get over him! Then when he finds someone new, you'll really be hurt because obviously you wouldn't be able to have sex with anymore (unless he's a lowlife/cheater). You guys broke up. If you can't work things out/get back together, it's ok to move on and find someone new. The first one isn't ALWAYS the ONLY one. Sometimes, as much as we may want it to work, our first one just isn't meant to be. In that case, you take your time and get over him (not UNDER him)... and then when you're ready, go out and find someone new.

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It can if it takes you unaware. But since you are not ignorant to it, it's pretty much what you let happen. You can have all the activity you want with someone and NOT be or get emotionally involved. The events, activity, companionship and memories will be exactly the same as if you were a couple. If you want to cross the line into sex... same thing. Your heart does not have to be involved, just your body and mind. People who have

one night stands or pay for a prostitute, don't fall in love, they just have sex. That is proof that it can be done, if both people want to and agree to. it's all your call. The only difference is how you protect your heart from getting hurt or used.

It sounds like you are still recovering emotionally from breaking up with your ex. Its best not to have sex with anyone especially your ex right now in this stage of healing. Breaking up is traumatic for your emotional health and your vulnerable right now. Anyone have sex with will take advantage of that and it will only cause you more grief. If you have sex with your ex he'll only think he will be able to use you and lose you over and over again in the future. You are better than that, you don't deserve to be his plan B who only wants you for sex.

Nah, quit doing that. You guys broke up for a reason. If you're still going back there for it you'll never let anyone else into your life and move on. Give yourself time to heal and let nature take its course. You'll be ready for somebody new eventually if you just let the old one go. Enjoy your time being single and free for now.

You are still emotionally attached (understandable) but also very vulnerable. I believe that emotional distress can arise from making mistakes, and right now you are mistaking sexual attention for the affection and intimacy that you probably really need. Consider not getting busy with anyone at all until you are in a happy place in your own life. Giving yourself away is not going to help at all. YMMV.

Yes it can cause problems if you with your current boyfriend because if your current bf find out it will cause eextreme problems between you and your ex if you kno what I mean by problems cause it want be good on your behalf things like that is not a good sign

Enough having sex. He is your freaking ex what if you end up pregnant?!?! Huh?! He will deny your baby and he is using you he is your ex!! Your such a whore. Close your legs

There is more to life, besides a "JUMP IN THE HAY"