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They ARE following their feelings. And their feelings, at least for the moment, say, "Back up."

This is a perfectly rational and smart thing for their feelings to do. If the guy is really all that, he'll understand, or (if he doesn't understand), at least be chill about it. If he doesn't take it well, then her feelings just saved her from falling for a guy who (apparently) doesn't take some things well.

Because sometimes the object of our affections gives no indication that he is interested or he may have said that he isn't looking for anything serious at the moment...after awhile, we women tend to put a leash on our emotions and hold ourselves back...it's how we protect ourselves from constantly acting foolish and from the pain of being rejected. When we do follow our feelings, some men back off and push us away...affairs of the heart are so complex, confusing and there are so many miscues involved.

Some women are scared. They had probably got their heart broken and are too nervous to put themselves out there again. if you are dating or considering dating this girl, be paitent. If you really care for her as a person, patience is the key. it might take her a little time to admit her feelings. But let her know how you feel. That usually helps the women open up sooner.

i have fell for someone amazin but i back up beacause im scared , nervous , not good enough ,not cool enough think hell bam me up ect

when girls feel that way they get nervous